I’m Like Other Girls

So, people who remember the 90s and early 2000s, or even the early 10s, might remember the recurring cultural fixation on being “unlike other girls.” A Youtuber I particularly enjoy just put out an excellent video essay on the topic, and it covers a really interesting angle that isn’t necessarily being talked about much.

A quick note about gender to preface things — some of the people who look like “other girls” are either transgender or non-gender conforming, and the issue of gender for trans people, especially re: gender performance for both personal reasons and survival reasons, is really complicated. I don’t experience dysphoria for my presented or physical gender, but I wanted to mention that when I say “women” and “men,” I am primarily talking about cis people — but I am aware trans people can also experience periods of trying desperately to conform while hiding their inner selves/real gender. (The real gender is the one by which someone identifies, just to be clear; also, genders and the expression/performance thereof can shift over time.)

So, with that note out of the way, kindly consider the latest iteration of feminine cannibalism.

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